Dear ________'s Biological Father,
I want to thank you for making me a Mother and making me realize I had to do what is best for our child by learning from my experiences. For such a long time I held onto the anger and resentment for you because of what you put me through but I always seemed to forgive you at the same time when I looked into my baby's eyes.
I wish you would have kept up your end of the deal when you decided to tear apart our young family. I thought we were doing fairly well and getting ready to enter parenthood together as we had planned. But life had other plans for us, didn't it? While I may still hold some resentment towards your mistress turned wife, I also blame you. It was your responsibility to be a Father to our little one and you failed. I will admit my anger and emotional well-being got the better of me at one point and I didn't let you forget that you failed. I am sorry that I didn't realize my mistakes sooner and forgive you for not being there.
As time and years have passed, my anger and resentment towards you has faded immensely. I have come to the realization that you will never be the Father that our precious child deserves. Your feelings towards me, whatever they may be, outweighs your love for the child we share. I would like to think that you miss our child and crave a relationship but as you know actions are louder than words.
Speaking on behalf of me and our little one, we wish you well and happiness with your new family. We hear you have added another little bundle of joy recently, congratulations! It is good to see and hear from mutual friends that you are a good Father to those children with your wife. I will admit I get jealous but it doesn't last very long because this amazing child reassures me that one day you will see how great of a kid I raised and you will know what true forgiveness really is the day you decide to look for our child. You have given me the best gift and for that I am eternally grateful.
Sincerely,
The Mother of our Only Child
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